If you look in the mirror

When you no longer feel comfortable with
a person that used to be a friend, you’ve grown apart or whatever, is it you or your friend who has changed? I used to think it was them, that they changed and “grew up” while I stayed static and that for this reason, we no longer had anything in common. I am not so sure any more. Perhaps we both change, in different direction. I guess we all change, but can you notice yourself changing or will you forever feel the same? Because I don’t usually feel like I change much, unless I make a butthard effort to actually change something about myself that I dislike.

My brother always cries when he watches this video.
I wonder if this makes him a better person than me.